Thursday, August 30, 2007

at times, you would feel like that man is the one you want to marry.
and at other times, you wished you hadn't meet him.

i'm sure you have heard this analogy many many times:-
you put a black dot on a piece of paper and ask others what they see,
everyone would surely say a black dot,
not that other parts of paper which is still clean.

it is just like how a flaw would always find a way to amplify itself,
and make us forget about all the other reasons to pardon that small mistake.

a friend of mine had a bad tiff with his girlfriend and he came to me for advice.
i could see that he was really upset about it as well.
and it reminded me of the times when was at loggerheads with miumiu.
at that point of time when all that rage unfurls within you,
all the goodness in the relationship would somehow cease to exist.
but fortunately, we have learnt to step back
and rethink about how different things are going to be if we give up on this relationship.

i have given up on our relationship before.
and i believe there were certain points of time when miumiu did as well.
i seriously thought i'm gonna be better off without him.
but as i look at the old pictures we took together,
when i hear that familiar tune we use to hum together,
or when everything around me seems to remind me of him,
it will all come surging back to me.
forcing me to admit that i wouldn't be as happy without him.
and i'm glad i gave in and continued with my journey with him.

there are times when you would feel like giving up.
i don't know if my friend's girlfriend would read this blog entry.
but if you are also caught in this same situation and you feel like giving up,
ask yourself -
who is the first person you wanna text when you wake up?
and when something big happens, who is the first one you want to inform?
it is easy to give up.
but why would you wanna give up when it just takes something much simpler
such as compromising and accepting.
and it will definitely make your relationship a stronger one.

don't give up on it baby.